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You won’t believe what you’re reading. I’m still having trouble believing it’s not a joke.
Here is a preview:
If a girl loves a boy from afar, has she committed a sin?
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/129):
Love is a psychological sickness, and if it grows strong it affects the body, and becomes a physical sickness, either as diseases of the brain, which are said to be diseases caused by waswaas (genies), or diseases of the body such as weakness, emaciation and so on.
Attachment to the opposite sex will not happen to a heart that is filled with love of Allaah; it only affects a heart that is empty and weak, so it is able to gain control of it, then when it becomes strong and powerful it is able to defeat the love of Allaah and lead the person into shirk. Hence it is said: Love is the action of an empty heart.